To change the date.....or not to change the date

Alright.  I've spent a good portion of the day hurriedly searching for a photographer in the event I keep 5.21. 

I am not satisfied.

I haven't talked to my Dad yet to see what he thinks about several of his relatives not being there.  Obviously, I realize that not everyone will be able to attend.  I really do get that.  However, when he only has one brother left, and only one sister-in-law he's relatively close with (as close as my Dad can be with people) and they BOTH can't attend....it makes me think perhaps that's not the best day.

Or maybe I just really want that photographer.

Well.  One of the two.

CRAP

My dream photographer is booked. 

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!

Originally, we were looking at Friday, May 27th (because of the restaurant).  However, now that we don't have to do it on a Friday, we decided Saturday May 21st is the day.  Unofficially. 

When I originally talked to the photographer, I gave her the 5.27 date.  When I emailed her last night to follow up, she responded this morning letting me know she's booked that day.

On top of several key members of the Ferri family who are out of town on the 21st....now I am left to wonder, is it REALLY crazy to change the date.....for the photographer.  (And the family, of course).

Photography is my number one.  Ugh, this is frustrating!